Everybody loves giving their favorite person pleasure. What’s more, that’s far from the only benefit of masturbation. Not only is masturbation good for you, but it also relieves stress, teaches you more about yourself and your sensations, and feels amazing. It’s very healthy.
It can be that you’re stuck in a rut and wondering what to explore. If you’re doing the same thing, that’s understandable. A change of setting, toys, techniques, and porn will do you good.
Here are some tips to maximize your pleasure. You deserve to feel good – here’s how to go about it.
Toys are Your Friends
Is your rabbit vibrator getting boring? Time to switch it up with something else. There are toys that will allow you to live out your wildest sexual fantasies, no matter what they are. Be prepared to come faster than you ever have in your life with some of the latest tech!
Let’s say you have a sperm fetish, but you don’t have a male partner to explore it with (or you’re too embarrassed to ask him). One of the latest trends in the sex toy industry is dildos with a squirting feature. It’s a regular dildo that will squirt at the sublime moment, flooding you with a massive orgasm.
Explore Your Erogenous Zones
There is so much misinformation out there where the female body is concerned. Even women end up believing false information about their bodies. It’s safe to assume the vast majority of readers will know about the clit (is it, though?). Some might even know where the proverbial G-spot is located. This article will explore some lesser-known zones.
My Neck, My Back…
Let’s start with the neck. A neck caress, especially on the nape, is almost always arousing. It’s a very vulnerable and sensitive place that you can stroke and brush gently with your fingers before getting down to business.
The Inner Wrist
This area can be very arousing to touch because people simply aren’t used to being touched there. Touch it gently, and don’t rush things.
The Butt
When it comes to erogenous zones, the butt ranks quite high. That’s surprising, considering it’s so overused. When you think how close it is to the genitals, though, it’s not that surprising. There are plenty of ways to make the most of this zone, starting with the anus, obviously. Try penetrating yourself anally while fingering yourself. If it’s hard to coordinate your hands, plenty of anal toys will take the load off your shoulders.
The Earlobe
The lobe is the sexiest part of the ear, hands down. Although it might seem hard to believe, tickling the lobe will get you in the mood.
The Knee Pit
This is the soft spot behind the knee. The zone is rich in nerves, and people are rarely touched there, even by their sexual partners. You caress the pit, then work your way up to the inner thigh, the most sensitive part of the thigh. Slowly but surely, this brings you closer to the center of things.
Alternatively, try massaging yourself there, switching back and forth between tickling, and exerting deeper pressure.
Don’t Rush It
Masturbation is not a chore to be done with as quickly as possible. It might have become one if you’re stuck in a rut, but still. When people talk about creating a mood with nice music, a bath, or candlelight, it’s more than just talk.
Female masturbation is one thing men are highly misinformed about. Many think it’s a process that happens slowly, at leisure, utterly different from what they do. In fact, it couldn’t be more similar. A lot of women’s masturbation sessions begin with pulling off underwear frantically and end with it around the knees. They hurry to get it over and done with between any two tasks of the day.
You should be doing the exact opposite of this. Arousal does not build from masturbating, but vice versa. Make time for whatever it is that makes you feel all hot and bothered. Usually, a longer period of arousal culminates in a more powerful and intense orgasm.
Fantasize
You don’t know what makes you feel sexy? Give your creativity free rein. It actually doesn’t matter if you have a partner or not. Masturbation is an occasion to live out your fantasy, not feel guilty or embarrassed about anything.
That said, your fantasy doesn’t have to involve your partner (if you have one). Just think about something that turns you on and build a story around it. Don’t feel bad over imagining something strange. With so many people in the world, there are bound to be at least a few million getting off on something even odder. Some men get aroused when they imagine women eating tacos.
Change Positions
With age, our masturbation habits can get sadly monotonous. Try changing hands, lying on your side or stomach, or even penetrating yourself from behind. If you usually lie on your stomach – which is a fantastic way to come using your body weight – try doing it on your back or vice versa.
The Real Effect of Porn
Last but not least, we’ll explore the real effect of porn on people’s sex lives, including their solo such. Many women actually watch porn and take great pleasure in it, even harder-core stuff. There are some who swear by it and others who shy away. It’s one of the things people go to extremes over, either embracing it or completely rejecting it.
Both positions are understandable and problematic at the same time. If you overindulge, it will desensitize you and lead to boredom and monotony. Maybe you need to change the genre. But if you’ve explored practically every niche, it’s time for a break. You’ll find it takes much longer to come without it, but it’s an effort worth making. It will let you explore exciting new things, and you’ll end up being more satisfied for it.
Maybe you don’t want to watch or have never watched any because you’re embarrassed or feel it’s demeaning to women. There are different things to choose from, and there’s no need to feel shy. You’ll find something that works for you. Just don’t overdo it.
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