Relationships: Women are turned off by men who have a lot of female friends, study claims

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    Women are turned off by men who have a lot of female friends because it means they have ‘many options’ to choose from, study claims

    • Psychologists from Australia’s Monash University had women rate photos of men
    • The participants were told how many opposite-sex chums some of the men had
    • Men were rated up to 40% less attractive if they had lots of women as friends
    • The team think that these men might be seen as ‘hard to secure’ as a prospect
    • However, having too few opposite sex friends was also seen to be off-putting

    Having a lot of female friends can make men a less attractive prospect to women, a it makes them look like they have ‘many options’ to choose from, a study has claimed.

    This makes the men in question look like they might be ‘hard to secure’ — and 40 per cent less appealing — the researchers from Australia’s Monash University argued.

    Furthermore, men who advertise have a lot of women as friends can be seen as lacking in humility, the team concluded.

    Having a lot of female friends can make men a less attractive prospect to women, a it makes them look like they have 'many options' to choose from, a study has claimed (stock image)

    Having a lot of female friends can make men a less attractive prospect to women, a it makes them look like they have ‘many options’ to choose from, a study has claimed (stock image)

    The study was conducted by psychologists Ryan Anderson and Cagla Tekin of the Monash University in Melbourne, Australia.

    ‘Saying one has a lot of female friends may seem boastful,’ said Dr Anderson.

    He added that men who report having particularly high numbers of female friends may seem to be exaggerating — which may elicit ‘suspicion and/or distrust’.

    In their study, the duo showed various women photos of four men and asked them to rate their attractiveness. Each man had previously been judged to be of a similar level of attractiveness by a separate panel of volunteers.

    The participants were told that each man was single and had 300 friends on Facebook — and, in some cases, were also informed of how many of these friends were of the opposite sex.

    The researchers found that the men with with most women in their social circles (comprising 9 out of every 10 friends) were rated around 40 per cent less attractive that the gentlemen for whom no friendship information had been provided.

    When the genders in the experiment were flipped, the team found that having a lot of male friends similarly made women less attractive to men, albeit to a much lesser degree — reducing their perceived attractiveness by only 10 per cent. 

    In total, the psychologists ran their test of 224 heterosexual men and women.

    While having too many friends of the opposite sex was seen as a turn-off, the researchers also found that there were also drawbacks in having too few of them.

    Men with the smallest number of women as friends were rated as being 10 per cent less attractive than those for whom no friendship details were given.

    Meanwhile, women with the least male friends were rated by men as being seven per cent less attractive.

    The full findings of the study were published in the journal Evolutionary Psychological Science.

    TOP 43 REASONS MEN ARE STILL SINGLE

    Scientists led by Menelaos Apostolou from the University of Nicosia in Cyprus anonymously asked men on Reddit why they thought they were still single.

    They analysed more than 6,700 comments and revealed the top 43 reasons why people are unable to find a partner.

    Here is the complete list —

    1. Poor looks (including baldness, and short stature)
    2. Low self-esteem/confidence 
    3. Low effort 
    4. Not interested in relationships 
    5. Poor flirting skills 
    6. Introverted 
    7. Recently broke up 
    8. Bad experiences from previous relationships 
    9. No available women 
    10. Overweight 
    11. Different priorities 
    12. Shyness
    13. Too picky 
    14. Anxiety 
    15. Lack of time 
    16. Social awkward 
    17. Enjoying being single 
    18. Depression 
    19. Poor character 
    20. Difficult to find women to match 
    21. Poor mental health
    22. Lack of achievements 
    23. Stuck with one girl 
    24. Lack of social skills 
    25. Have not got over previous relationship 
    26. Don’t know how to start a relationship 
    27. Lack of money 
    28. I do not trust women 
    29. Not picking up clues of interest
    30. Sexual issue 
    31. Fear of relationships 
    32. ‘I am not interesting’
    33. Fear of rejection 
    34. ‘I will not be a good partner’ 
    35. Attracted to the wrong women
    36. Homosexual 
    37. Given up
    38. Is not worth the effort 
    39. Fear of commitment 
    40. Health — disability issue
    41. Difficult to keep a relationship 
    42. Addictions
    43. Other 

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